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Confirmation dress: a girl wearing her confirmation outfit.

The perfect outfit for your confirmation

Dress code & ideas for girls, boys and guests

A confirmation is an important milestone for many young people on their way to adulthood. It is important to choose the right outfit for this meaningful occasion. This is because your choice of clothing not only reflects the significance of this occasion but should also allow you to express your personal style. We will explain what to keep in mind when attending a confirmation and which outfits confirmands and guests can wear.

Confirmation dress code: confirmation outfit tips

For the church ceremony, it is especially important to choose a confirmation outfit that follows the formal dress code. Wearing the right outfit is a sign of respect for the occasion and ensures that you are dressed appropriately.

This means that confirmation candidates and guest alike should follow these guidelines when they choose their outfit:

  • Dresses and skirts should be knee-length or longer.

  • Your shoulders should be covered for the church service. If you would like to wear a sleeveless dress or top, it is best to cover up with a short jacket, a bolero or a blazer.

  • Avoid wearing a low neckline to church. A low-cut back or cut-outs are not appropriate to wear to church. However, you can cover up either of these with a jacket and transform them into suitable church outfits.

  • The colours of your confirmation outfit should be restrained. Classic colours such as black, beige or dark blue are suitable. However, you can also opt for trendy colours, pastel shades or bolder colours such as dark red or dark green.

  • Subtle, delicate patterns such as floral prints are also suitable for church. Large, bold prints can be overpowering.

  • When choosing your accessories, opt for understated jewellery such necklaces, earrings and bracelets and/or an elegant watch.

Confirmation clothes for girls: girls wearing their confirmation dresses and outfits.

Girls’ confirmation outfits: confirmation dresses and stylish alternatives

In preparation for the big day, many girls ask themselves if they should wear a dress to their confirmation or rather go for a chic alternative. To make your choice a little easier, we have put together a selection of different confirmation outfits to inspire you. Whatever you choose, your outfit should not only honour the occasion and its traditions, but it should also be an expression of your personal style.

Whether you choose to wear a classic dress or opt for a more modern outfit with a blazer, we have put together some ideas to suit every style:

Dress for a confirmation: inspiration for dresses and jumpsuits.

Confirmation dresses and jumpsuits

A safe choice for your confirmation outfit is an elegant dress or a smart jumpsuit. Pair them with a pair of chic sandals, ballet flats or understated pumps with a kitten heel and a matching clutch. This is an elegant option which will be perfect for your big day.

Sweeping A-line styles, modern pleated dresses or a classic shift dress are all great choices for your confirmation dress. If you prefer a more quirky look, then empire dresses, stylish chiffon dresses or elegant cocktail dresses are a fantastic choice.

Find the perfect confirmation dress

If you don’t like wearing dresses or prefer a more modern style, then you can opt for a stylish jumpsuit. Fitted styles or a loose-fitting culotte version paired with a blazer in a matching colour, are great choices if you want to create a trendy confirmation outfit that is still suitable for church.

Tip

It may be necessary for the confirmation candidates to kneel during the church service. Therefore, make sure that your confirmation outfit offers you enough room to move about in comfortably.

Outfit for a confirmation: confirmation clothes ideas and alternatives.

Girls’ confirmation outfits: a modern two-piece outfit as an alternative to a dress

Two-piece outfits are a modern, stylish alternative for girls who don't like wearing dresses. These outfits are often made up of elegant trousers or a skirt, combined with a matching blouse or a chic top. Together with matching shoes and a small bag, you can create a smart outfit that gives you plenty of room to express your own personal style.

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Boys’ confirmation outfits: ideas for what boys can wear to their confirmation.

Boys’ confirmation outfits: how to look stylish

As with all formal occasions, you can't go wrong with a smart, well-fitted suit for your confirmation. There is a wide range of colours to choose from. You can either stick to classic black, anthracite or dark blue or opt for a trendier suit in a dark, muted colour such as dark green, dark red or teal.

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Once you have found your ideal suit, you can go ahead and look for a shirt that expresses your personal style. You can either go with a classic white shirt or opt for a shirt with a splash of colour.

When it comes to accessories, it's entirely up to you if you want to wear a tie or bow tie to make your confirmation outfit even smarter. For a particularly elegant look, you can also wear a matching waistcoat with your confirmation suit.

If you prefer not to wear a suit, there are stylish and suitable alternatives. For example, you can wear a pair of smart trousers with a shirt. You can add a blazer in a matching colour or a stylish jumper to your outfit. However, this is not a must. Adding a pair of leather shoes and a belt in a matching colour are the perfect way to complete your confirmation outfit.

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Confirmation guest outfits: dress code, tips & inspiration

Confirmation guests should opt for a stylish outfit that balances the formal nature of this occasion and its traditions with your personal style.

Generally speaking, more traditional cuts and understated colours and patterns are always a good choice for a guest’s confirmation outfit. This is a safe way to ensure that you are following the confirmation dress code.

To help you choose your confirmation outfit, we have put together some ideas to inspire you.

Outfits for confirmation guests: inspiration for women.

Confirmation guest outfits for women: formal styles for the occasion

As a guest, you have plenty of options to help your outfit to stand out at a confirmation. We will give you some ideas on how you can look stylish yet appropriately dressed for the occasion:

  • Look elegant in the right dress: a dress is always a fantastic option. You can use your personal taste as a guide when choosing a style and go for something with a formal elegance. Elegant A-line dresses or classic shift dresses are particularly popular styles for confirmation outfits. For a whimsical look you can also choose a maxi dress or an elegant wrap dress.

  • Timeless trouser suits: an alternative confirmation outfit for guests is a tasteful trouser suit. You can choose between either a traditional cut or a modern version with a pair of wide-cut trousers.

  • Exude modern elegance in a jumpsuit: a stylish jumpsuit is a modern alternative to a dress or trouser suit. Opt for a long version with a stylish cut to create a chic outfit for your confirmation.

  • Feminine two-piece outfits: the combination of a formal blouse with a long skirt or a pair of elegant trousers is a timeless classic that you can’t go wrong with. If you wear high heels with this ensemble, your confirmation outfit will look even more elegant. This option is the most versatile and allows you to express your personal style.

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What to wear to a confirmation: outfit inspiration for men.

Inspiration for men: how to find your perfect confirmation guest outfit

As a guest, wearing the right outfit to a confirmation gives you the opportunity to express your style and equally show respect for the occasion. Depending on your personal preference, you can choose between wearing a classic outfit or a more modern style. Get inspired by our outfit ideas:

  • A classic suit (with a twist): you can't go wrong with a well-fitted suit in black, grey or dark blue. To add a modern touch, choose an eye-catching tie or a shirt in a contrasting colour. If you want to go for a more modern and casual look then you can skip the tie.

  • Smart casual with a blazer and smart trousers: if you prefer a more relaxed look, match a pair of chinos with a smart shirt. This combination gives your outfit a kind of effortless elegance. You can complete your look with a matching jumper, blazer or coat.

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Conclusion: look great in an understated and elegant confirmation outfit

A wide range of outfits are available for confirmation candidates and their guests, which can be selected and styled to suit different personal preferences. However, it is important to remember that your outfit should be somewhat restrained and suitable for the church ceremony. So as long as you follow the basic dress code and make sure you look smart, you can put together a confirmation outfit that suits you perfectly.

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